Dress and Appearance
Most women are attracted to success, wealth, excitement, and adventure. If you can project these qualities through your appearance and dress, women will certainly be attracted to you. If you were a woman, wouldn’t you want to meet exciting, successful men? Well, so do they.
The trick to meeting women is not necessarily being rich, famous, or successful, but looking like you are rich, famous, or successful. This can be accomplished through your wardrobe. I may have a very low paying job, but if I have a nice looking suite with a nice tropical tan (especially in the northern U.S. winters), I could sure fool a lot of people into thinking I am pretty well off. The idea here is not that you are trying to be dishonest, but rather, you are presenting yourself in the very best, positive light with your best foot forward. Many women who do not have a dime have a very nice outfit, and why do you think that is? To meet a man, of course. You do the same, and do not feel one bit embarrassed about it.
Clothing is a disguise, it can make or break you. I could one minute look like a successful lawyer, the next, a sports figure, the next, a drunken bum. All these changes could be made through a simple change of clothes. You must decide what image you would like to project, and then dress accordingly. However, depending on the type of bar or nightclub, you may want to adjust the look you want. For example, in a fancy hotel lounge you may want to wear a sweater with jeans, and at a beachfront bar you may want to be seen with a pair of shorts with a tank top. You would want to adapt your dress to the type of bar you plan on going to, along with blending in with the other men in the bar. But no matter what you mind up wearing, make it good quality, projecting a look of a successful, exciting man.
Dressing yourself is comparable to packing a product in the marketing sense. Obviously you want to sell the product – you. The way you do this is to package your product in the most attractive way you can. When you go grocery shopping for a particular item, many times the products are all basically the same, however, the product with the most appealing packaging is the one that will catch your eye. The same is true with women shopping for men in bars, they will often be attracted t the men who have the most attractive appearance.
A lot of women will appreciate a man who is dressed up in a nice fitting suit made from good material – being clothes fanatics themselves, most women can spot quality quickly. Clothes are often the very first thing a woman will notice about a man – so why not attract their attention to you with nice clothes? Good suits are specially attractive on many men because they can represent authority, power, success, and business like ambition. It symbolizes a lot of positive attributes which are especially attractive to women. Wear suits as often as you can to bars, if the atmosphere allows it.
If you cannot afford to buy a quality suit, even at discount outlets or during sales, buy one that at least fits well and appears as if it is made from good material (remember, most bars are dimly lit). You may want suits which are appropriate business styles such as charcoal gray or blue pin stripes. Try not to buy suits with very loud colors or those which may be out of style. Watch closely what the well-dressed men in your town or the bar you are in wear, and imitate their colors and styles.
Buying a suit is not a necessity in meeting women in bars (especially in less formal locations), but it certainly can’t hurt, and may put you strides ahead of your competition – other men. Wearing a suit in bars where most men do not, (differentiating yourself in marketing terminology) may give you some exciting results from our female fans. Lots of women like men who are not afraid to be different, and you may be noticed more by some of the lovelies.
