Why Bars? (Part 3)
Lighting — As you know, most bars are dimly lit, offering an even further enhancement for encouraging people to meet. Don’t you look a little better when you are not on display under florescent lights or bright daylight? Some of your imperfections may not be visible at all in a bar. Isn’t this another plus situation for both you and her, especially in the first meeting?
Atmosphere — Most women who go to bars are looking forward to a night of fun – most likely they are in good moods. Your chances of success are much higher if the women are in good moods that night. I believe that it is more likely that the women in bars are in better moods than, say, they would be at work or in other situations. At bars, women are dancing, talking and really enjoying themselves – this is the best atmosphere for getting acquainted.
Power of Choice — When your friends or relatives set you up on a blind date, you are relying on their judgment as to whether you will like her. Why not keep this control to yourself? I would much rather choose my date for the evening than to have someone else do it, wouldn’t you? Also, when your friend sets you up for a date – you have just that – a date for the night. It could be a complete waste of your time and money since you may not get along with her at all, and you might be taking her out for a $50 dinner. In a bar you could talk to someone for 10 minutes without even buying her a drink and find out quickly that you do not like her. Then you are off to the next table for another attempt. Doesn’t a bar offer you more choices, more variety, and more power to decide which women you want to approach for a lot less time and money? Think about it.
I am sure that there are many other good reasons for going to bars, but I think we have hit all the important ones. I hope that you agree with me that bars are the very best places to meet women.
