Why Bars? (Part 2)
Cost/Time Investment Consideration – Adopting the services of a dating service can be a very expensive proposition. Not only because of the cost for service, but also because you are paying for the cost of the date (i.e., dinner, theatre, etc.). If you are not a big drinker and do not buy others lots of drinks, bars can be a very inexpensive way of meeting women. When you walk into a bar there could be as many as 50 available, attractive women. If you are somewhat assertive, you could conceivably get one or two women’s phone numbers in one night. See if you could do that through a dating service or at the laundry room for such little cost to you. In searching for women to meet there are costs involved – time and money. I believe in keeping my time spent and money outflow to a minimum in my search. Let’s face it, you have to usually talk to a number of women to find the one you like and the one that likes you. If you are relying on friends to supply you with women you are severely lengthening the time necessary to meet women. How many women do your friends know and how often would you be able to meet them?
Motivational Factors – How often could you run into a women jogging or at the bus stop who is motivated to meet a man? Not very often, I would expect. Virtually every woman in bar wants to meet a man. Is that not a better situation for a successful encounter? Let’s talk about the beach, where there could be hundreds of available females. Not a bad place to meet women, but how can you sort out the available ones without making a major effort? Most women at bars are there specifically to meet a man – what better situation. You will have to do some sorting out for women attractive to you at bars, but isn’t the task a little more manageable than doing it at a five mile long beach?
Influence of Alcohol – Most people’s inhibitions are reduced under the influence of alcohol. Most people in bars do drink (some maybe too much) and therefore might be more assertive and approachable than under ordinary circumstances. Is this not another good reason for meeting women in bars? Not only are the women motivated to meet men, but they may be less inhibited. How can you ask for more?
