August 2011
1 post
Taking Action (Cont.)
Another action-orientated approach is to go for women who you ordinarily would not be attracted to – a different type. For example, you may only like blondes. But if you have been unsuccessful in meeting blondes, why not go for brunettes – you may be pleasantly surprised how narrow minded you have been. Maybe you have only approach fashion plates. Why not try out a woman who is a little out-dated...
January 2011
6 posts
Taking Action
Okay, you have picked out a woman in the crowd who interests you, and you think she may be interested in you also, judging by that shy little smile she gives you when your eyes meet. Now, how can you make contact and start out on the right foot? The easiest and most direct approach is to ask her to dance (obviously the club you are in must have a dance floor with music). Try to make sure you ask...
Prospecting (Cont.)
While you are prospecting, you should be looking for good meeting situations, such as: Two women are together and one gets asked to dance and moves on – does her partner look uncomfortable being alone, or does she have a longing to dance (swaying to the music). If the answer is yes, get in there. Look for situations where a woman is begin bothered by an unwelcome male – this could be a situation...
Prospecting
Identifying good prospects or women you would like to meet is a very important and useful activity in a bar. Everybody does some prospecting or exploring at the clubs, but I would like to suggest that this activity be a little more specific. Often times, if we are anxious, we may tend to approach the wrong women for us in our haste to make a connection. This can be a waste of time for both you and...
Dress and Appearance (Cont.)
Well made and attractive sports jackets, sweaters, and dress shirts are also very appropriate attires in bars. Try to pick out items that fit well, especially if you have a good body. Show off the more desirable parts of your body — wear tighter slacks if you have muscular legs, for example, or a form fitting shirt if you have a nice chest. Keep imagining yourself as a product to be sold to...
Dress and Appearance
Most women are attracted to success, wealth, excitement, and adventure. If you can project these qualities through your appearance and dress, women will certainly be attracted to you. If you were a woman, wouldn’t you want to meet exciting, successful men? Well, so do they.
The trick to meeting women is not necessarily being rich, famous, or successful, but looking like you are rich, famous, or...
Attitude
Your attitude about yourself in the process of meeting women is a very important ingredient for your chances of success. Upon embarking out on an evening of nightclubbing, your attitude should be very positive towards assuming you will have a good time, being spontaneous with women, and really going for it. With this attitude, you will have a far better chance of mingling and talking with women....
December 2010
1 post
Knowledge of Self (Cont.)
Intelligence
This is another trait which has to gauged by the women with whom you are meeting. In bars (depending on the type), you can face wide ranges of intelligence levels. If you are intelligent, you would most likely want to meet a woman with a good mind, unless, of course, carnal pleasure is your ultimate goal for the evening and her body and aroma are more important to you. You can only...
November 2010
1 post
Knowledge of Self
Successfully meeting women in bars is the result of a well thought out selling strategy. You (the product) are selling yourself in the marketplace (the bar) to the market (the women in the bar). A good selling strategy is one built upon a solid knowledge of your competition (other men) and how you can compete against them.
A good salesman knows his product well and why his product is better than...
September 2010
3 posts
Goal Setting
Whether you are aware of it or not, when you set out to one of those nocturnal establishments, you usually have some goals or objectives in mind. These goals, which you set for yourself consciously or unconsciously, may change during the course of the evening for a variety of reasons, any one of which may relate to your progress towards achieving your objective.
Let’s think of some objectives we...
Types of Bars
As you know, there are many different types of bars and nightclubs. Let’s think about a few types; collegiate bars, piano bars, discotheques, hotel lounges, Irish bars, restaurant bars, sing-a-long bars, bars with live bands, New Wave, casual, formal, city, country western, small, large, oldies, dating bars, jock bars, professional bars, and the list goes on and on. You should try out the...
Why Bars? (Part 3)
Lighting — As you know, most bars are dimly lit, offering an even further enhancement for encouraging people to meet. Don’t you look a little better when you are not on display under florescent lights or bright daylight? Some of your imperfections may not be visible at all in a bar. Isn’t this another plus situation for both you and her, especially in the first meeting?
Atmosphere — Most...
August 2010
4 posts
Why Bars? (Part 2)
Cost/Time Investment Consideration – Adopting the services of a dating service can be a very expensive proposition. Not only because of the cost for service, but also because you are paying for the cost of the date (i.e., dinner, theatre, etc.). If you are not a big drinker and do not buy others lots of drinks, bars can be a very inexpensive way of meeting women. When you walk into a bar there...
Searching For Robert Harrington Part 1
There is no information online about How to Successfully Meet Women in Bars or its author, Robert Harrington. The book doesn’t have an ISBN. It is a mystery.
I would like to know more about Mr. Harrington: where he’s from, his education, what research he conducted for the book, how much money he made from it, and so on. Using what little information the book provides, as well as the...
Why Bars? (Part 1)
In literally every good size city or town in the U.S. there are bars (night clubs, taverns, dating bars, or whatever you would like to call them) with many, many girls available to be met. Almost any night of the week (except maybe Mondays and Tuesdays, although weekends are best) you can find some bar in your surrounding area with women there drinking, talking, dancing, and having a good time....
Title Page, Table of Contents and Introduction
Title Page
[First we learn who this book is written for:]
For Men Only
How To Successfully Meet Women In Bars
by
Bob Harrington [He goes by Richard on the cover, but he’s more informal on the title page.]
Symphony Press, INC.
Tenafly, NJ
“From Logic to Magic”TM
Eric Weber [Remember this name.]
Table of Contents
Introduction
Why...